When social civilization develops to a certain height, many incredible things appear. Taking emotions as an example, women are naturally more sensitive animals. Many times, women always hope that their men can give them a little more sense of security, but what is "security"? Is it when you are being bullied that you can stand out? Or do you spread all your grievances on me when you're feeling angry outside, becoming your "vent"? Women just need to listen, love, and attention from men, but men also need to understand and be recognized.
1、 When men are satirized and sarcastic by women
For example, "Without me, there wouldn't be your today!" In this way, love is first and foremost a form of respect. If you don't respect him, how can you cherish him? If your efforts stem from willing love, then you have no mood to worry about gains and losses; If you have already begun to care about your own efforts, it means that your love is already lacking in weight. At this point, calculation is possible, but knowing it well is sufficient. It is absolutely not advisable to claim debts with a straight and righteous attitude, as it will only accelerate the evaporation of your already precarious love.
2、 When women think their men lack security
Women always hope that their men can give them a sense of security, but what is "security"? Is it when you are being bullied that you can stand out? Or do you spread all your grievances on me when you're feeling angry outside, becoming your "vent"? Women just need to listen, love, and attention from men, but men also need to understand and be recognized. So women should not always think that their men lack a sense of security. All you want is that responsibility, that companionship, that love?
3、 When a man is suspected by his own woman
In marriage, honesty and responsibility are essential. Once a woman begins to doubt her man, he will feel very painful and even difficult to argue. For example, "Who sent this text message?" Don't be suspicious between the couple. If it's like this every day, it's going to be difficult. Xiaoma still said, "Don't easily flip through the other person's phone. If you can't see what shouldn't be seen, you're not happy; if you can't see what shouldn't be seen, he's not happy!" Once this man is suspected by his own woman, he is very painful and hopes that female friends can reflect on themselves.
4、 Men's sexual abilities are denied by women
Denying a man's sexual ability is the biggest insult to him, especially a simple and rough denial. Even if you refuse to ignite yourself to please him, you can slowly increase your desire. Even if you really don't want to force yourself, you can find a reason not to be overused to alleviate it. A categorical refusal not only affects his mood for a while, but also affects his sexual function.
5、 Women Negate Men's Development Prospects
When two people come together, they need to build a happy family. Since choosing to hold hands requires mutual support and trust, when a woman believes that her man has no future development prospects, he loses the motivation to strive for it and breaks the can. So men need encouragement from their loved ones, and this warmth will only stimulate their potential. Don't easily deny your man, always believe that your man is the best and most outstanding.
In short, interpersonal communication requires communication, respect, understanding, and so on!!! Many times, people should not overlook the communication between emotions. Sometimes, more communication can open up many "shackles" in the depths of both parties' hearts
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)