Post Date December, 03 2023
At the end of class, a professor at a university in the United States said to his classmates, "I'll play a game with everyone. Who wants to cooperate with me
A girl walked onto the stage.
The professor said, "Please write down the names of twenty people you find difficult to part with on the blackboard
The girl followed suit. She has neighbors, friends, family, and so on.
The professor said, "Please cross out the person you think is the least important among them
The girl crossed out the name of her neighbor.
The professor said again, "Please cross out another one
The girl crossed out another colleague of hers.
The professor said again, "Please cross out another one
The girl crossed out another one
Finally, there were only three people left on the blackboard, her parents, husband, and children.
The classroom was very quiet, and the students looked at the professor quietly, feeling as if it was no longer a game.
The professor calmly said, "Please cross out another one
The girl hesitated and struggled to make a choice
She raised chalk and crossed out her parents' names.
Please cross out another one, "said the professor's voice next to him.
She was stunned, trembling as she raised the chalk and slowly but firmly crossed out her son's name.
Immediately after, she burst into tears, looking very painful.
The professor waited for her to calm down for a moment,
The person closest to you should be your parents and your children, because your parents are the ones who raised you, your children are your own, and your husband can be found again. Why is your husband the person you find most difficult to part with
The classmates looked at her quietly, waiting for her answer.
The girl calmly and slowly said:
As time goes by, my parents will leave me first, and my child will definitely leave me when they grow up. The only one who truly accompanies me throughout my life is my husband
In fact, life is like an onion. Peel it off one by one, and there will always be one that will make us cry. After reading it, I silently cried
My friend, it's the last passbook in your life! Please cherish!
In life, it's better to have a good partner than to have anything, and one cannot live without a good old age. The wife is the last spectator in the husband's life, and the husband is the last passbook in the wife's life.
The so-called "last audience" refers to a man's life, no matter how he spends it, who truly sees the moment when your life comes to an end is not someone else, but your wife;
The so-called "last passbook" refers to a woman who, after entering old age, can live together for five generations and have children and grandchildren around her knees. However, it is not anyone else who can truly accompany you to the last moment of life without any regrets, only your husband.
Throughout the world, there is no marriage that is not formed by sex, developed by love, and sustained by love. This relationship is family and kindness.
The reason why a couple with a significant difference in physical appearance can grow old together, why a couple with vastly different knowledge can be together for a lifetime, and why a couple who used to fight and make noise when they were young suddenly become respectful and friendly when they entered old age. To a large extent, it is not because of the great development of their "love" between them, but because of the amount of "kindness" they have stored in their daily lives of long-term interaction.
This kind of kindness usually does not come from the icing on the cake during the lucky stage of the couple, but from the timely help during the disappointed stage:
Or the sacrifice of one party's life in times of distress, or the meticulous service of one party during their illness,
Or the lack of resentment and regret in bleak days, or the unwavering determination to leave when people betray each other, and so on.
This kind of emotion cannot be replaced by any lure of material gain or fame. The reason why couples in the world place "kindness" first and "love" behind is because the "kindness" between them has far exceeded the weight of "love".
A sexual encounter between a man and a woman: a sexual partner in youth, a career assistant in middle age, and evolving into parents of both parties in old age.
Due to prolonged interaction, the potential paternity and motherhood in each other's bodies will unintentionally reveal themselves, gradually evolving into the role of each other's "parents", taking care of their life partners like taking care of their own children.
No matter how many flaws and shortcomings the other person has, no matter how many unforgivable mistakes they have made in their youth, or how much harm they have caused themselves, they can accept and tolerate with a broad mind. Strictly speaking, this is love.
Although this kind of love does not have many romantic elements, it is full of family affection, kindness, friendship, and mutual assistance. Therefore, even if there is not much love, it still makes marriage warm and happy.
In the eyes of ordinary people, in life, there is nothing but illness, nothing but money; We should add these two more sentences: it's better to have a good partner than to have anything, and it's better to have a good old age without anything.
