Detail 1: Men are good at using mind attack to conquer the women they want
Many men understand this truth: to get the love of a woman who doesn't really love him, it's also a matter of time and place. In these moments, women's resistance to love is the lowest. For example, in a claustrophobic environment. At sunset. After the appointment ends. wait.
After grasping these scientific truths, many men begin to step by step and prepare to break the hearts of women. As a woman, it is really necessary to grasp this information one step ahead of men. If you really don't have a plan to start a relationship with a man, it's best not to schedule a date at these times.
Detail 2: There are two special sets of popular and unpopular vocabulary lists in psychology
Popular words such as: love, happiness, happiness, comfort, money, safety, freshness, ease, profit, worth, authenticity, health, beauty, liveliness
Unwelcome words such as: sadness, difficulty, cost, hard work, damage, death, destruction, contract, responsibility, obligation, failure, pressure, price
From these two sets of words, it can be concluded that when you want to persuade someone to like you, accept you, and agree with you, you should learn to infect them in a positive way.
The ancients said, "Take advantage of others.".
Today, people are fastidious and use positive psychological cues to buy into interpersonal relationships.
Detail 3: Weekend Effect
Office workers all know this truth: Monday to Wednesday, people's mood is very bad, looking at the heavy work, can not see the end at a glance, pain! As soon as Wednesday is over, it will be Thursday immediately, and it will be Victory Friday soon. The mood will immediately turn overcast and cloudy before clearing up!
Taking advantage of this "weekend effect", it is recommended that white-collar workers arrange their work time of the week fairly: try to put simple and easy tasks in the front row on Wednesday, while the more complex and unpleasant tasks are, the more they need to be arranged after Wednesday, and the most stressful tasks are best arranged on Friday. In this way, during the week, your work mood will not have too many ups and downs, and will maintain a relatively uniform and good state.
In real life, many things can be applied to this. If you are smart enough, you can apply it to every important juncture in life!
Detail 4: Women love to be praised
There is an interesting phenomenon: When meeting a strange woman for the first time, if you praise her clothing accessories, she will quickly show a sincere and sweet smile to you, and the conversation will be much more harmonious.
"I have heard the saying: 'Wherever a woman is willing to wear clothes and accessories, they are all carefully selected by her.'"
So, to belittle a woman's entire outfit of clothes, shoes, hats, and accessories is undoubtedly a complete negation of all her previous work. No one likes to feel negative, especially women. If you can't be sure of her, at least don't deny her.
Detail 5: A person's flower heart has been destined since childhood
In a family, when parents, grandparents, and all direct and collateral relatives take turns competing for favor with the "Little Prince" and "Little Princess": "Baby, do you prefer father or mother?" "Honey, who loves you more, grandparents?"?
Thus, there is a rule of inertia: the more children who were favored by their parents during childhood, the higher the probability of cheating after marriage.
It's all because parents, relatives, and friends vie for her favor, and it's also a triangular or even multi angular battle. A spoiled child is arrogant. Conceited men and women are doomed to ups and downs.
Detail 6: Facing women, men like to beat around the bush
"Do you really love me?" "Do you love me more or her?" "Are you willing to give up the temptation of another city for me?" Often, he would smile at her and ask, "What do you think?" "
"I'm not asking me, I'm asking you!" said the woman with sadness and anger
"So he changed his spoony expression and said, 'Of course. I only do everything for you.'"
So she was deeply moved and loved to weep.
"Just because she didn't know it, he tricked her a little in the middle of this question and answer.".
Note that these few seconds of a man always have a different meaning. Among them, there has been a trade-off.
When you ask for an answer from a person, if the other person hesitates for more than three seconds, often the answer that he ultimately gives is not the true answer in his heart, but rather the deliberately depicted answer to please you.
Detail 7: Many men and women begin to reject each other's bodies after years of love or marriage
"The thought of having a close relationship with her makes me feel uneasy all over."
"As long as I have physical contact with him, I will have a visceral sense of rejection."
Many people believe that this is a witness to the disappearance of love, but in reality, it is just "intimacy phobia.".
A man or woman can easily develop a feeling of love similar to that of a parent, brother, or sister in their long-term marriage. Once this kind of affection replaces love, and they do "that kind of thing" again, they will feel guilty and cause mental stress.
Detail 8: What body language tells us
Many male friends say, "Why does my wife always like to be sticky with me? Especially when we go to a crowded place, we often engage in intimate behaviors that make people uneasy. It's not a hot love period, it's embarrassing!"
Human emotions are often expressed through body language.
Being willing to approach a person indicates being attracted by the smell on his body.
Physically rejecting a person means that you genuinely dislike him.
Men often make small gestures that are not annoying, but that they spoil her.
Women occasionally treat men as sandbags to vent their anger, and every blow they make is also an expression of love.
Looking at a person's heart depends on his trivial actions.
On the street, a couple of men and women come up. If one party actively holds the other party's hand, it means that he or she loves her or him more.
Detail 9: Secret Stories of Compliments
In modern social language, it is advocated that "when you are complimented by others, you should immediately humble yourself, which can exchange for a better impression of the other person.".
But in fact, the more adept at humor, self humility, and even self irony in the face of compliments, the more meaning they have. Not accepting compliments from the other person reflects his unwillingness to accept their friendship.
This type of person appears to be intelligent, humorous, modest, and outgoing, but in fact, he has a deep disdain for interpersonal communication. They have a strong sense of self and a deep understanding of the various hidden phenomena behind social interaction. They have a thorough understanding of the human heart, and thus have a deeper sense of unease about it.
When a person is calm and self contained in the face of your compliments and love, it may be that he really didn't mean to be friends with you. "If you're smart, it's business and don't look too much at other things.".
Detail 10: Secret Stories of Women Eating Snacks
Women tend to eat snacks, especially melon seeds
But I don't know if you have carefully observed: Any woman with a packet of melon seeds in her hand who is eating, her eyes are empty, and her thoughts have already flown thousands of feet away.
Eating melon seeds is just to provide her with a chance to be distracted.
What they eat is not melon seeds, it is time, it is loneliness that cannot be passed away.
Those who love to eat melon seeds are the ones who are vacant.
When you start to get hungry easily, it means your heart is getting empty