There are some signs to indicate whether a relationship can continue. Whether you are in the love or marriage stage, if the relationship between a man and a woman is not very right, there will be something to remind you.
1. Being with him is no longer fun
Whether it's a date or a trip, it's difficult to enjoy it when you feel bored with your boyfriend. If you would rather spend more time with your best friend or be alone than let him accompany you, then this is definitely one of the signs of a breakup.
2. No sex
The existence of sex means that you have crossed the line of good friends, indicating that you want to have a connection with this person. When you and your partner no longer have sex, or even have no idea of it at all, you are left with only a friend relationship. A lasting emotional relationship requires the catalytic effect of sex.
3. Always arguing
Continuous arguments are a sign of emotional decay. No one likes to handle such troubles. Sometimes the party who provokes a dispute just wants the other party to be "eliminated". Many men are afraid of breaking up with women, so they use infidelity and arguments to make her leave them without any choice. Thinking about whether you have more laughter or more arguments between you can help you determine what the next direction of this relationship will be.
4. Unequal emotional effort
Psychological and emotional abuse is sometimes as bad as physical abuse. Be careful when the way he treats you is harmful to you. When you need to constantly make excuses for his behavior or language, it's time to consider your relationship with him.
5. He deliberately kept a distance
When men find it difficult to break up, they choose other ways to make women take the initiative. If the distance between him and you becomes increasingly distant, you should have a frank conversation with him. Please ensure that your conversation unfolds in a calm manner and does not put too much pressure on him.
6. You started flirting with other men
If your eyes float on other men, it is a normal behavior. But when you want to flirt with him and get his phone number, the meaning is different - especially when this person is not your boyfriend.
7. Emotions have not progressed to the next stage
If there is no progress in this relationship, you have two choices: either talk about your future with your boyfriend to see if you have different directions, or start looking for a new "prince charming". The life you want should be your first consideration, don't waste time on someone you don't plan to be with forever.
8. Your friend is not optimistic about this relationship
If your friend does not recognize your boyfriend, it is also a factor to consider. Of course, your friends just want you to be happy, and if they hear too much news about him making you unhappy, they naturally won't like him. Also, be careful about what you reveal to your girlfriend about your relationship with him.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)