Post Date December, 03 2023
The words' leftover man 'and' leftover woman 'have gradually moved from being unfamiliar to becoming familiar, and have now become a social problem, creating a sharp contrast between anxious parents and leisurely single men and women. Although men become more attractive as they age, age is a key factor in the marriage market. Some elderly single male young people with good conditions can be called golden leftover men. Today, let me give you some advice on how to take off your order for high-quality leftover men.
If you have a good impression, inform the other party promptly
Male chasing female, interlayer mountain; Women chasing men, interlayer sand. If you feel good after your first date with the girl you love, and if you keep chasing after her without any resentment, you will definitely see the dawn of victory. If it's really not good after your first date, it's recommended to adopt a "quick cut" strategy, tell her her her true feelings, wish her good luck, and never procrastinate.
Learn to communicate and avoid giving speeches
Learn to listen, no woman is willing to listen to your "long talk" before a relationship is established. When dating, ask women three prepared questions in a timely manner, and then become a qualified listener. It doesn't matter if you're not interested in listening. You should learn to "pretend", at least pretend to be interested in the topic. This is also a polite and gentlemanly expression, which is extremely easy to win the hearts of women.
Keep a distance from friends of the opposite sex
Try to straighten out the relationship as much as possible with 'confidants of beauty'. A broad-minded woman also finds it difficult to tolerate an "ambiguous" confidante relationship. If your best friend is a single woman, you may want to confess this level of friendship to the woman you love as soon as possible. If the other person cares, please make a clear and clear choice.
Frankly inform the other party of your marriage history
Divorce or married background requires confession. If you have a marriage history or are currently handling divorce matters, it is best to be honest with each other and pay attention to the way you express yourself. There is no need to cover it up, it's too much to wrap it up. The person who should come will always come and tell them if they are single. Experts suggest that when it comes to past heartbreaks, it's not necessary to confess all the details. However, if you don't say anything, it can actually create concerns about "dishonesty" among the women you love and increase mutual estrangement.
Not stingy with money when meeting for the first time
On a first date, men pay the bill. Despite the current promotion of gender equality, both men and women have a certain economic foundation and ability. However, when it comes to first dates, boys who voluntarily pay the bill also exhibit a certain gentlemanly demeanor. At the same time, the most crucial thing is to have the initiative to control future dates or cancel dates, such as just paying for a meal. Why take it so seriously? It is not necessary to prioritize the first bill payment behavior and focus on future financial allocation issues.
Proper maintenance of dining etiquette
Table etiquette is very important. When dining with women on a first date, it's important to pay special attention to your eating habits. It's not like hiding that you're not even full, but there's a rule to keep in mind - your goal is to date, not eat. Where can't we eat? The main thing now is to create a good impression, right? Choose a cuisine that is suitable for conversation, such as spicy dishes, Western cuisine with more than 6 types of knives and forks, and hotpot types. If you need to switch, then switch. This is not the time to showcase your shortcomings.
Don't talk about mother's demands for the first time
It's okay to have a good relationship with your mother, but no woman likes you to talk about how you love your mother on your first date, and what your mother will think of your future daughter-in-law. If you keep talking mother to mother during the conversation, your impression will definitely not be good, and it's inevitable that your next date will be ruined.
