Post Date December, 02 2023
Do you often hear about how boys treat girls at friends' gatherings? Some guys are really so-called romantic, but some just want to keep a fish pond and catch the concept of random fishing. Some girls are always deceived by sweet words, but when you find something wrong but don't know what to do, perhaps taking a look at the following points will make you suddenly understand and make up your mind to leave the fake boyfriend who doesn't care about you.
Always disappearing on holidays
On Valentine's Day, your birthday, and Christmas, he always has many excuses to pretend to be busy. If you are his true partner, he will definitely spare time to celebrate with you. If it's not his girlfriend, then his holiday time will definitely not be wasted on you.
There won't be any attendance calls
He rarely takes the initiative to care about what you are doing now, and even one or two of the messages he sends may be perfunctory words such as' cheer up today 'or' good night '. If you can't understand why he can't be interested in you or give you a sense of peace of mind, it's actually futile because he won't remember your feelings unless it's arranged for sex.
Only suitable for entertainment
If he really intends to see you as a girlfriend, he will want to take you to public places for dinner, meet his friends, share his interests with you, or invite you to a friend's party. But if you are just a tool for him to pass the time, he won't want you to participate in any of his friends or family's lives. For you, the most important activity is "Having sex", and it's not about you and him to meet other people!
Hardly seen during the day
If it weren't for the lingering time, he wouldn't actually want to do anything else with you. If the location of the incident is at his home, he may want you to leave before he goes to work or before the morning!
I'm not ready to talk about emotions yet
If he says he hasn't had a real relationship with anyone right now, then trust him! But please don't think that maybe he wants to seriously fall in love with you. When he says these words to you, it's likely because he doesn't want to be tied too tightly, looks forward to a new work environment, plans to study abroad or plans for his work, or he just broke up and needs some time.
Don't care, don't listen, don't ask
If he doesn't actually care about you, it's obvious that you're just a fish in his fish pond. When asked if you want to go out for a drink or call you when you're bored at night, there's not much joy. If you're honest with yourself, don't say you don't know, you'll definitely feel it! If he thinks you are a social material, he will definitely spend time with you, do things you like, or occasionally give gifts and flowers! If you don't want to be a person who keeps calling and calling, please stop these foolish behaviors and decide who you want to be with in love. It's the smart thing you should do!
