Post Date November, 16 2024
After the age of 35, sexual maturity and experience reach their peak, and then gradually decline. So, how to regulate to have harmony?
NO.1. Attempting Innovation
As couples age, they get to know each other more, and due to their familiarity and trust, they are no longer shy about discussing how to achieve a more satisfactory sexual life. It's worth learning to use new methods and perspectives to solve old problems, such as sharing a bath with a spouse.
NO.2. Adjusting the speed
Young people exhibit rapid and intense sexual behavior, which makes them easily excited and erupts like gunpowder. A man in his twenties can achieve high excitement within 2-3 minutes of starting, while a wife may need more than 20 minutes to achieve high excitement. So there is often a situation where the wife is gradually entering a better situation, but has already stopped playing. The survey shows that newlyweds in their twenties are the most difficult to achieve among all age groups. As men age, their excitement begins to slow down, and blood flow and muscle contraction naturally slow down. Therefore, it takes longer for men in their forties and fifties to reach orgasm. This slow and emotional approach is more powerful for the wife. With the synchronization of sexual arousal, the wife naturally obtains satisfaction.
NO.3, replace it with practice
Young men may develop a bra even if they only see it hanging out in the air, but after the age of 35, they may become indifferent to their wife's body and pay more attention to her peace. 51% of young husbands are excited when they see their wife undress, but by their forties, this rate will drop to 40%. If couples can replace their eyes with their own actions and passive acceptance with active expression, they will achieve unexpected results.
NO.4. Changing roles
Between young couples, it is always the desire of the husband to actively approach his wife and express it softly in his ear. After many years, the wife may become proactive due to changes in hormone secretion. Both males and females secrete male and female hormones, but their secretion ratios vary at different age stages. After the proportion of these two hormones secreted by men changes, they may be more willing to be in a passive position. After the reduction of estrogen in the female body, the secretion of male hormones correspondingly increases, which may become more active.
NO.5, using less to win over more
50% of young couples have two to three visits per week, with 11% having more than four visits. After the age of 35, this proportion drops to 39%. And 45% of couples may not have a few times a month, but they still feel emotional and physical satisfaction. After the number of sexual encounters decreases, couples should be more aware of the importance of the quality of their sexual life each time. If two people can simultaneously obtain physical and mental satisfaction, even if it is only once, it is much better than the usual dozens of times. A farewell is more important than a new marriage, and it also demonstrates how important a high-quality sexual life is for a couple's relationship.
To have a harmonious sexual life after the age of 35, both spouses need to adjust and adapt. As long as both spouses truly understand these normal and unavoidable changes, they can face them correctly and achieve lasting happiness, even in old age.
