Post Date December, 03 2023
If we don't emphasize reconciliation skills between couples and are always "cold faced", our relationship may even break down at times, no matter how good it is.
The world of love is not a hostile battlefield, what we need is reconciliation between each other rather than endless noise and commotion. So, in our marriage life, we need to learn the skills of getting along, so that we can blend in and enjoy each other.
Complementary method
If the husband is irritable, he is prone to anger. The wife should provide comfort and calm her anger. Achieve the effect of 'combining hardness and softness'.
Film Law
Try to schedule your husband to watch a movie. This is indeed a wonderful and quite effective method of emotional adjustment, as the male and female images on the screen can reflect people's feelings like substitutes. After watching the movie, you should encourage your husband to express his feelings towards the male and female protagonists on the screen, causing him to be sensitive in expressing his feelings.
Oscillation method
For a husband with slow emotions, you can use concussion techniques. Pay more attention to your own needs, and when the other party wants you to do something, you tend to be slightly off track; When doing things for oneself, let him know that you are happy; If he shows any sensitive behavior, you should let him know your reaction The Way to Serve a Good Wife - Five Don'ts
Reciprocity law
The love between husband and wife requires both parties to give. If you want to win the other person's love. You must first give love to the other party, which is the principle of reciprocity in love. The ancients have long adhered to this principle: "Invest in me with wooden peaches, and repay me with Qiongyao
Adaptation method
The combination of husband and wife is a combination of two personalities and two living habits, which is bound to lead to many "disjointed" phenomena. For this, both spouses must learn to adapt.
Adaptation includes two aspects: one is to tolerate the other's lifestyle habits, and the other is to change one's own lifestyle habits; Only in this way can two circles that were originally intersecting gradually interfere and overlap.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
