Post Date December, 03 2023
We all know that it is easy to love each other, but difficult to stay together. Marriage needs us to manage well, but there are many factors that undermine this happiness. The following five injuries are the worst in marriage. If we want to have a happy marriage for a long time, we need to stay away from these five major injuries. So, what are the five major injuries?
1. The widening distance between husband and wife
First of all, we should be clear about one fact. That is, there is a gap between men and women. For example, women like Romantic, but men like Normandy; Women like fashion, while men like fashion models. For couples, there is a gap in life interest, value orientation, interests and hobbies, which can not only make their world more colorful, but also just conform to the law of "complementarity". However, when the gap is widening day by day, we have reached a point where we cannot complement each other, and our marriage is prone to problems. For this reason, while complementing each other, we should follow each other's steps and cultivate common interests, so as to better shorten the distance between each other.
2. Couple life has lost its interest
We always believe that married life is flat and light, without romance and sweetness in love. However, many couples have lost to such blandness. The love between husband and wife is going to deteriorate after all, from beautiful and romantic love to kinship. This is because marriage is longer than love. So under this kind of real marriage, the emotional life is in a "tired" state, there is no longer "innovation", and it has become thick and hard lines in the oil, salt and firewood. In fact, the blandness in marriage does not mean that there is no interest or romance, but it is more real and more suitable for life. You can still surprise her with breakfast, and you can also give her a kiss at work. These are little romantic things.
3. Sexual disharmony
In every marriage, sex is indispensable. Marriage without sex is not long. Sex is the lubricant in marriage life. A harmonious husband and wife life can make both people ruddy and energetic. On the contrary, marriage will have big problems. Often the sex between husband and wife becomes the obligation of two people, and it is as boring as routine. The lubricant has lost its function, and marriage is bound to have some problems. This kind of hidden danger is very important! However, it is inevitable that there will always be problems in sex life. At this time, we need to communicate in time and solve the problems properly to make sex life more happy and marriage more happy.
4. Busy all day long neglects love
Love is different from love. We are talking about love, not love. Love is only so prominent when we are in love with each other. Once we enter into marriage, "love" is more important. We should not neglect our care for each other because we are busy all day. The care and care of each other and the love given to the other half at any time and place are the basis for a long and happy life of a husband and wife. There are more than these things in life, but only by supporting each other can we go hand in hand for a lifetime.
5. To quarrel over trifles and hurt feelings
Life is a lump of hemp. There are always small lumps that cannot be solved. Before we get married, we should know that there are many trivial things in marriage that are beyond our imagination. When we face the pressure of work and the complexity of life, quarrels are always inevitable. This requires us to be rational and not quarrel over trifles. You know, too many quarrels will hurt your feelings. Many couples eventually split up because of one kind of quarrel or another.
Of course, a happy marriage needs to be managed, but this is not an overnight event. Only by promoting strengths and avoiding weaknesses, mutual tolerance and tolerance can we go a long way.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
