Before getting married, each of us may have various aspirations and fantasies about our married life. We hope to have no arguments, no loss, no pain after marriage... but reality is not like this, and we cannot be disappointed just because there is a gap between our longing for love and reality.
We should use our own strength and skills to solve various problems in marriage, just like our marriage philosophy, and then enjoy a harmonious and happy love together. The following are some tips for getting along after marriage that the editor brought to you today. I hope you can absorb them:
Embrace: gentleness requires your arms
Do we think that when we argue, we should ignore each other and always let time resolve the conflict? Actually, it's not like this. If we hug each other after a dispute, our reconciliation doesn't actually take long.
You may not believe this feeling, but when you do, when your skin lightly touches the other person, there is an amazing warmth spreading from head to foot. Sometimes, a warm hug is enough.
Dinner: Atmosphere can promote love
After getting married, has it been a long time since I dated or ate outside? So in marriage, when we discover some details, we can arrange for each other to resolve all conflicts in a romantic way.
If we could watch another movie after dinner together, it would be perfect. After watching the movie, by the time we leave the cinema, we might have completely reunited.
Concession: Emotions need to move forward with retreat
The process of arguing is actually a process of hurting each other. In this process, if we all want to win, then you will find in the end that your ideas cannot be realized. Therefore, if both parties can take a step back and let the smoke dissipate, it will be easier for each other to calm down. The saying goes, take a step back and open up the sky.
Memories: The beauty of the past promotes harmony
The life after marriage may be dull, so many times we can't find the feeling we had when we first met. When did you first meet? Where was your first date? How did the first kiss occur? When is the most beautiful moment in my heart As memories increase, more and more deep emotions will gradually be awakened.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)