Post Date November, 16 2024
Mr. Zhang's son is two years old this year. The little guy looks adorable, white and chubby like a Chinese doll in a New Year picture. Since the arrival of my son, the family has added a lot of fun, especially my father-in-law and mother-in-law. According to their hometown's teachings, this is the eldest son and grandson.
The elderly people of that era inevitably had some old habits, especially the father-in-law, who often touched the little chicken when he was happy and said, "Grandchild, come on, let grandpa like one. This action is very common for young people, and it is also a manifestation of grandpa's love for his grandson. Mr. Zhang was first worried about grandpa's pain or damage to the child's reproductive organs, so he always pays special attention to his son's expression and expression.
Mr. Zhang gradually discovered interesting phenomena. At this moment, the son not only does not resist, does not cry, nor does he have a painful expression, he is very excited, and sometimes he also smiles happily. As his son grew older day by day, he also became interested in his own chick. Sometimes he played with his own reproductive organs. Adults were afraid of his child's illness and always stopped his behavior. However, he did not hesitate to get his own reproductive organs without hesitation. At this time, his little face was excited and satisfied
This phenomenon made Mr. Zhang unable to understand, and Mr. Zhang told his husband about it.
Are you a little nervous about the child? A two year old child doesn't speak well, you associate him with sex After listening, the husband laughed heartily and said, "Alright, don't worry about it. The child just feels happy, so be careful not to touch him in the future
After listening, Ms. Zhang also felt a bit worried and thought to herself, what kind of sexual consciousness does a 2-year-old child have.
In fact, Ms. Zhang's idea is wrong. Sex is not necessarily only available to adults, but rather to individuals who have an understanding of it from birth and experience different stages of development as they age until maturity.
The famous British psychologist Memphis once pointed out in his book "Sexual Psychology" that the natural tendency of the reproductive organs to feel sexual stimulation has a basic range of variation shortly after birth. For newborn babies, this part also often feels stimulated... This is a very normal thing. Freud believed that a person's sexual desire starts from infancy and has a wide range of meanings, including attracting fingers, defecating, etc. People believe that it does not belong to the scope of sex. Freud believed that as sexual instincts mature, the concentrated area of sexual drive flows from one part of the body to another, and each change signifies that a person enters another new stage of sexual psychological development.
