Post Date November, 16 2024
1、 Tell your lover that you love Ta
Although it is often said that actions are better than words, words are often more expressive and straightforward than actions. We need to express our love to our lovers from time to time. A simple sentence such as' I love you 'or' You are everything to me 'is very useful, as it can make lovers feel cared for, loved, and secure in love.
2、 Showing love from time to time
A small intimate gesture - brushing off in the hallway and patting the other person's back, sitting on the sofa hugging their partner's shoulder, holding hands on their legs while sitting next to each other, and holding hands while shopping - will make your partner feel a strong sense of affection and convey your true love. A small touch is important, much stronger than a whole night of ups and downs.
3、 Understand how to appreciate each other
We should often tell our lovers what we like the most about Ta - what we admire about Ta, what makes us proud of Ta, and what strengths we see in Ta. Let the other party know that our appreciation of Ta is not just in the early stages of a relationship, but throughout our entire life. We need to constantly encourage and support each other. Only in this way can we help Ta realize its potential. 4、 Open your heart and not close yourself up, hiding your likes and dislikes, ideals, fears, achievements, mistakes, etc. We can share important things with our lovers. In addition, we should ensure that our lovers are the ones who share our secret gains, not others. Although it is important to maintain a certain amount of personal space in front of the closest person, it is still important to take as much time as possible to chat with your partner.
5、 A solid support for being a lover at all times
When a lover encounters a sad situation of unemployment or loss of a loved one in life, we all understand how to comfort and encourage each other. Similarly, when lovers struggle with colleagues, work is not smooth, and they can't remember where to put their checks or other trivial matters, we need to know how to support and comfort them. Of course, the premise is that we cannot accept adversity and allow it to be beaten or scolded. But when an argument occurs, we should still have a thicker skin, stay calm and rational, listen to what they are bothering first, understand them as much as possible, and at least comfort them.
6、 Giving gifts
We should seize every opportunity to give gifts to our lovers as a sign of love. A gift can be a book bought at a bookstore that suits one's heart, a special dessert, or a piece of jewelry or clothing - regardless of size, just tell the other person you're missing her. We can also leave a love note, and the studio can send a text message saying 'I love you'. These can all reflect that we have always been thinking about each other, and they will have more confidence and a sense of security in themselves. 7、 Understanding the shortcomings and shortcomings of our lovers is likely to lead to the failure of our relationship due to our unreasonable expectations of each other. Unless we marry a robot, we cannot demand perfection from each other. People always have weaknesses and shortcomings, these are personalities, not faults. We need to learn to understand and accept each other's hobbies, as a normal person inevitably has some hobbies. We all know that our own weaknesses often make us feel uneasy, so we must not blame our partner's shortcomings or intentionally expose them.
8、 Make sure to allocate time for the two to be alone
No matter how busy the two of you are, make sure to spend one night together in a week or two,. Two people can create new memories, share each other's stories, or just stay together and enjoy each other's companionship.
9、 Eliminate the mentality of taking things for granted
Every day we should be grateful for everything our lovers have done for us, and thank them for bringing so much happiness to our lives. We must remember that every day of happiness in love is brought to us by the little things our partner does for us (we hope we do the same). Never take things for granted. Love is a process that accumulates over time and requires careful treatment. Once we relax when we start, love will gradually disappear.
10、 Strive for equality
We must abide by the golden rule in love: do not do to others what you do not want. Lovers should share household chores and other tasks equally. When you are not particularly considerate of others, don't expect or demand others to be particularly considerate of you.
